Secret Essentials deliver pleasure, we have a range of items chosen specifically with your pleasure in mind. There is a saying ‘if it feels good, do it’ and as long as no one gets hurt that is a good place to start when considering the passionate side of your life.
What kind of pleasure you want to achieve or enhance will guide you to the right purchase and we outline our ranges under the ‘Hints’ section. Here within the ‘Tips’ section we hope to give a brief outline of the erogenous zones to help you better choose the right product and gain the best satisfaction.
Some sex toys are designed specifically for clitoral stimulation. However, clitoral nerve endings are not just contained within the clitoris itself many, many more lie under the skin surrounding it and some even continue toward the vaginal opening. To gain full pleasure a product that can stimulate all these nerve endings will deliver the best orgasm possible.
This is why the ‘bunny ears’ design is so enduringly popular. Direct stimulation to the clitoris itself can be too sensitive and even painful for some. The bunny ears sit alongside the clitoris, surrounding it and all the peripheral nerve ending ensuring complete stimulation. The more settings, such as vibration or pulse settings, the more likely you will be to find the exact one to give you the best toe curling orgasms you will ever experience!
Ah the elusive G-spot, we seem to hear so much about it, even sometimes its very existence is called into question, our feedback however tells us it very much does exist! A G-spot orgasm can be an acquired skill, not easily achieved but with a little help, patience and the right product satisfaction can become guaranteed, even if that G-spot orgasm remains tantalisingly out of reach, the journey will be extremely pleasurable anyway! A little like riding a bike, difficult to learn, although fun while trying and once mastered, never forgotten.
The G-spot is located on the front wall, approximately 1-2 inches inside the vaginal opening. It will feel different to the flesh around it and can be the size of a 10p piece. Although it is good to remember we are all different! Your G-spot tends to respond to different stimulation than your clitoris, we are told a firmer touch and lower vibration or pulse are effective for many women.
Shaft toys with ridges and variable vibration/pulse settings, especially those with a curve are ideal for stimulating the G-spot.
Once you have mastered what feels good, what doesn’t and have the right product you may consider moving towards the goal of the ‘blended orgasm’. This ‘third level’ orgasm, following clitoral and G-spot orgasm is said to be the most deeply satisfying of them all. Products that have both dedicated G-spot and clitoral stimulation will give you the best chance of achieving this out of this world orgasm. The bunny with vibrating and/or rotating shaft and multi function ears is the most popular female sex toy out there for precisely this reason. Or why not choose separate items and use them combined? Whichever works for you.
Although some people feel quite squeamish at the thought of anal sex, our advice is never knock it until you’ve tried it! This area has so many nerve endings that give immensely pleasurable sensations when stimulated it would be a shame to neglect them. Our range of products have items for the beginner, the experimenter and the more experienced user. Take it easy, take your time and you will reap the benefits.
Some sex toys work great when used by yourself and some are fabulous when used together with another person, most can be used either way. Spoil yourself/selves why have just one toy, look to building up your favourite items so you are never stuck for ideas (or orgasms!)
While we make much mention of the different types of orgasm, the sort of product that can achieve that orgasm, the erogenous zone to use the item on, always remember your entire body can become one total erogenous zone with the right stimulation. Never deny your pleasure, involve all your erogenous zones in your passionate play.
A little buzz here, a little vibration there and the odd pulsation or two goes a long, long way in building up to a deeply satisfying and rewarding finale!
We hope these tips have helped you in deciding which items to purchase but if you do have any queries please do get in touch, send us an email, hit the ‘chat now’ button, call us on 01204 288050, or contact us via our facebook page. Please feel free to recommend us to others.
We hope you enjoy browsing our products and we are confident you will find one or several that are just right for you, after all, we all deserve fulfilling, mind blowing orgasms!